2 yr old

      Police said a two-year-old girl was raped in the aisle of a dollar tree today.  The girl was at the store with her aunt and grandmother; they became separated for a moment and she was grabbed by the already convincted sex offender, Eugene Melendres Ramos.  After taking her, he pinned her down in the aisle and pulled down her pants.  He began to assault her when he was spotted and then he was chased out of the store.  The grandmother and aunt chased him as well as two other men that were outside the store.  The men eventually tackled him and held him until officers were able to arrive.  Ramos had previously been charged in 2003 for intent to commit rape, sodomy, or oral copulation of a seven-year-old.  He is currently being held for suspicion of kidnapping, rape, sexual acts with a child and false imprisonment.  The bail is set at $350,000.
     I think that this is horrible.  The child was still in diapers and it's a real problem in America concerning women and children.  I'm not saying men aren't raped, but it is more common with women and children being the rape victims.  I personally think that the laws should be more strict concerning rape or sexual assault.  He clearly had done this before and he clearly didn't learn his lesson.


http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2010/12/02/BAAR1GL0VH.DTL&tsp=1

Friend

I have a friend that constantly bashes women.  I don't know if he is trying to be funny or actually serious because it happens often.  An example, is the other day he asked what class I was in and I said, "Intro To Women's Studies" and he replied that it doesn't exist.  He posts statuses on Facebook such as, "Females are stupid.. thats it ..." and calls women "simple bitches."  He says that men are superior to women and we are actually below dogs as far as being smart goes.  This is a video from his wall: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UUEhNnk7om0&feature=player_embedded#!  He's a good friend, but I got to say it bothers me to know he thinks so negatively about women.  I'm not singling him out at all because I know a lot of guys are like this. 
So heres my message to guys that think this way: 1) Women are just as smart as you are.  2) Women can do anything you can do.  3) No, I will not make you a sandwich! Your hands aren't broken, so make it yourself.  4) Maybe, you should get to know a girl and not base things off of looks only.

Thanksgiving

I didn't realize that there were extreme gender norms going on at my family events until Thanksgiving. I noticed the men sat in the living room and talked about topics such as football and hunting while the women prepared the meal. My grandpa ended up carving the turkey which stereotypically the "head of household" does. That was the only help any male contributed to the meal, although they had no troubles eating it. After the meal the men continued to relax and talk while the women scrambled to clean up and complete the dishes. Most of the men talked about hunting on Black Friday while the females talked about shopping. I guess it was just funny to see the stereotypical gender roles within my own family.

Reebok

I was watching TV the other day and a commercial came on for Reebok.  The commercial is supposed to sell shoes but the majority of the time the camera is focused on women's butts.  I get that they are marketing that these shoes tone your bottom and your legs.  However, if you are selling the shoes shouldn't you show the shoes a little more than just glimpses?  The main focus of the commercial is their butts!  Reebok you aren't selling butts; you are selling shoes!  The commercial is way over-sexualized and makes the women look like objects.  I just don't understand why you would design a commercial to please the male gaze when you are trying to sell the product to women.   

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eR_UpJKwghc

Youtube

    In another class, we were talking about how youtube is mainly for males.  Males are the ones that generally are watching the videos and are much more likely to post a youtube video than a female.  Women do post videos, but if you read the comments they are horrible.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rcqXzX-7ULg This video is a video about a woman showing you how to iron a pair of pants.  There are comments underneath saying "This woman knows her place" or " I wouldn't mind sliding my penis into her vagina, if you know what I mean."  Another video is: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=26CAz1PdVmY&feature=channel  Comments say: "Lose your glasses and 50 pounds. Get straight teeth, GETTA NEW VOICE."  Another says, "LEARN TO F****** SING OR SHUT YOUR MOUTH , !
You RUINNN this song , you tone deaf little whale.."  Guys judge the attractiveness of females and either comment saying they want to do them or comment saying how ugly and stupid they are.  Women are judged a lot on youtube and people say some of the meanest things. 

Baby For Sale

     On Tuesday, a Florida woman was charged with selling her baby in order to be able to buy a car.  The ordeal started when the grandmother of the child made the deal with a buyer.  The original price was going to be $75,000, but the buyers couldn't get a loan from the bank and the price for the child dropped to $30,000.   The 22 year old mother of the 8 week old boy was only going to receive $9,000 of the profit in order to buy a new vehicle and pay court costs from a prior violation.  The mother, grandmother and the grandmother's boyfriend all were arrested and charged for selling a child and the grandmother also was charged with communications fraud.  They were caught because the grandmother offered to sell the infant to a relative and the relative reported it to the authorities.  An agent then went undercover on the case and that is who they ended up selling the child to.  The child is currently in state custody.
     This is horrible that anyone could sell their child or grandchild.  I don't know how any normal person could do something like this and be OK with it.  Not to mention there are plenty of people out there that want children and can't, so if you don't want your child then you can put it up for adoption and make someone else happy with the joy of motherhood/fatherhood.  As for the money part maybe they should get a job and earn money like most of the rest of America.  I say most because we do have those that freeload off of the government.....but Hey, who am I to judge?

"Dirty Little Secret"

Today, Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher joined the UN Office on Drugs and Crime to speak out about the issue of online ex trafficking.  Women and children are traded for sex online.  Demi and Ashton called this a "dirty little secrect."  They are promoting an internet that is free of trafficking.  They set up a trust fund to support the cause that will be used to rebuild the lives of victims of this type of slavery.
-27 million victims forced into sex trafficking
-three quarters of the estimated 32 billion dollars for trafficking women and children takes place on the internet
I think that this is horrible and it comes to show that the internet can be a very dangerous place.  We talked in class about sex and people selling their virginity.  These people are essentially slaves that are being sold out against their will.  It is wrong on so many levels.  I think its great these celebrities are supporting a good cause and donating time and energy to a cause that is worthwhile. 

http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20101104/en_afp/untraffickingmoorekutcherpeople